Irrespective of whether one is a boy or girl, young or old, rich or poor, healthy or sick, the commonality lies in the essential human need for companionship. From the moment we grasp the concept of social connections in our kindergarten days, we intricately incorporate friends into the very fabric of our lives. The authority in this regard is Robin Dunbar, an evolutionary psychologist famous for his best-seller FRIENDS: Understanding the Power of our Most Important Relationships.
These two articles explain the science behind friendships -
This is a summary of the interview with Dunbar in Atlantic (a quick read)
This one is a book summary of the above book (it is behind a paywall but can be circumvented by adding to pocket app)
You can listen to his interview on YouTube here on the same subject.
Here is my summary of the summary ;)
Chapter 1: Why Friends Matter:
Friends contribute to mental and physical health.
Social integration correlates with better physiological health.
Chapter 2: Dunbar’s number:
Defines Dunbar's number as around 150 friends.
Examines changes in the number of friends across the lifespan.
Chapter 3-9: Making friends with your brain to Binding the bond of friendship:
Discusses the neurological basis of friendship, the structure of social circles, and the importance of touch and shared activities.
Highlights cognitive abilities like the Theory of Mind and inhibition in fostering friendships.
Chapter 10: Homophily and the seven pillars of friendship:
Explores the tendency to befriend similar individuals.
Identifies seven pillars, such as language, location, and interests, influencing friendship closeness.
Chapter 11-12: Trust and friendship to The romance of friendship:
Describes the development of trust in friendships and the evolving importance of relationships across different life stages.
Chapter 13-14: The gendering of friendship to Why friendships end:
Examines gender differences in friendship behaviour and reasons for friendship breakdowns.
Chapter 15-16: Friendships as we age to Friends online:
Explores changes in friendships throughout life, from childhood to old age.
Discusses the impact of online communication on friendships, including potential negative aspects.
What an in depth look at friendship & the science behind it. Thanks for the resources & summarizing this.